Calling all trauma survivors struggling to make sense of their religious trauma or cult abuse...

Introducing

Unindoctrinate: 

4 Steps to Deconstruct and Un-indoctrinate from your culty group so you can heal and be back on your feet in 12 months or less.

 

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Does this feel familiar? 

You are reeling in the aftermath of religious trauma and abuse.

You are trying to understand what happened to you.

You are feeling overwhelmed and confused about where to start in your recovery.

You need a one-stop-shop for all the cult & religious trauma education you've been craving...

 

But here's the thing... 

Everything changes when you have access to information that gives you "ah-ha" moments. 

There aren't a lot of online spaces where you can talk about what happened to you. 

You have to scour the internet and try to find the right books to help understand how you found yourself indoctrinated in the first place. 

You need an expert to point you in the right direction but don't quite know where to find them. 

 

You need help but you don't know where to find it. 

I'M READY TO GET STARTED
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Introducing

A Year of Non-Magical Thinking for Survivors

A 12-month education membership to help you deconstruct and unindoctrinate from your religious trauma and get back on your feet in 12 months or less.  

Perfect for:

Pastor's kids, former cult members, family of cult membership, former fundamentalists, ex-Jehovah's Witnesses, ex-Vangelicals, ex-Mormons, survivors of conspiracy theories

Educational videos

Information-packed and digestible videos about topics relating to religious trauma & cult recovery. You learn realistic coping strategies you can use immediately.

Journal Prompts

Weekly journal prompts to help you uncover patterns set in place by your traumatic group experience. Learn how to break patterns of guilt and self-blame.

Private Community

Members have access to a private community forum where you can connect, share resources, get announcements of bonus courses and ask your specific questions.

Virtual Coaching

Received personalized feedback and virtual coaching with Dr. Quincee. You can submit your questions and get video responses to the course material along the way.

I'm Ready to Get Started

It's time to unindoctrinate

Here's what you'll get inside the membership 

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A 4-Step Process for Deconstructing and Unindoctrinating after Religious Trauma

Step One: Deconstruct & Untangle

Module 1

Deconstructing from Indoctrination

Learn different theories of deconstruction and how you can understand your own nuanced journey of separating yourself from the negative impacts of your religious or cult experience. 

Module 2

The Problem with Magical Thinking

Differentiate between logical fallacies, cognitive biases, and learn how magical thinking emotionally manipulates you. Learn skills for spotting magical thinking in culty groups. 

Module 3

The Makeup of High-Control Groups

Learn the different ways we describe a high-control group and the emotional manipulation that happens within these high-demand, high-control, high-stress groups. 

Step Two: Spotting Coercive Control

Module 4

Narcissistism in Leadership

Get tools for inspecting leader dynamics that show up in unhealthy religious environments. Learn how narcissistic leaders manipulate power and scriptures for their own benefit.

Module 5

How Thought Reform Works

Learn how no one joins a cult, but are indoctrinated with very specific strategies employed by leaders or the group at large. Learn how to practice self-compassion in the aftermath of indoctrination. 

Module 6

Untangling Emotional Manipulation

Learn the six tactics of emotional manipulation and how you can spot these happening in your relationships. Learn to advocate and set boundaries in your recovery.

Step Three: Addressing Posttraumatic Stress

Module 7

The Four Trauma Responses

Learn the particulars of how our brain and bodies respond to trauma. Learn specific ways these trauma responses are used in culty and traumatizing groups to keep people engaged. Understand triggers in empowering ways. 

Module 8

Skills for Nervous System Regulation

Learn tips and tools for nervous system regulation. Most religious trauma survivors have been living in a trauma response for decades and need to feel calm and in control again. This is how you begin to take your life back. 

Module 9

Traumatic Nature of Purity Culture

Many culty groups will insist on purity of body, mind and spirit. This can cause havoc on sexual development and healthy relationships in adulthood. Learn the history of purity culture in fundamentalist religions and how to reclaim your body.

Module 11

Religious OCD & Scrupulousness

Finish your year of recovery unpacking how religious trauma can result in scrupulousness and anxiety with imperfection. Learn how to manage triggers and challenge the ways you were taught to feel unsafe in the world around you.

Module 10

Complex & Relational PTSD

Learn different theories of recovering from complex PTSD, a diagnosis common in cult and rigid religious trauma survivors. Learn how self-compassion and understanding can change your relationships with yourself and others.

Step Four: Vulnerabilities & Safety in New Groups

Module 12

Unlearning Conspiratorial Thinking

Many religious trauma and cult survivors struggle with conspiratorial thinking in their recovery. After all, you've been in groups teaching you that everyone is out to get you. Learn how to combat this thinking and start to feel grounded again.

Module 12

Green Flags & Safety in New Groups

Not all groups are toxic and scary. Learn the green flags to look for in new groups and how you can assess your emotional, spiritual and psychological safety when looking for new community and relationships. These skills help you reclaim your life. 

Let's start your next season of healing and recovery from religious trauma

ALL ACCESS

$597

 

  • Get immediate access to all of the material, without waiting for monthly drops of new material
  • Get tools I personally use with clients
  • Virtual Coffee Chats with Dr. Quincee
  • Community chats with Dr. Quincee to ask questions and get support
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12 payments of

$45

  • Take care of your tendency for overwhelm by moving through this material one month at a time with our membership model. 
  • Get tools I personally use with clients
  • Virtual Coffee Chats with Dr. Quincee
  • Community chats with Dr. Quincee and support with other survivors 
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Note: you get the same material. All Access gives you all 12 months immediately while the Monthly Membership gives you access to new material each month. 

What our students have to say: 

Are you afraid of being overwhelmed? We've designed the program to reduce overwhelm.

Shelby, Student

I was worried about overwhelm because I struggle with that since addressing my religious trauma. The material describes in enough detail to help see the reality of high control groups, the exercises and worksheets are also very helpful for processing. 

Farah, Student

When I signed up, I didn't understand why this was a membership, but I understand now.  It gave me space to process the experiences I had been through and what unhealthy things I had learned in my group without overwhelm. I highly recommend. 

Not sure what exactly we'll be doing inside the program?
We teach you how to emotionally process in a healthy way. 

Clare, Student

I found the concrete examples of how thought reform has been used in certain groups to be the most helpful. It helps me understand why my family entered into this and why it has been so hard for me to get out.

Emily, Student

Ahhh that my way of thinking and processing isn’t normal. I had a hard time figuring out why I think or feel the way I do when my family is still involved.  This absolutely changed how compassionate I can be towards myself

Are you afraid this won't apply to you or your group?

You aren't alone. Others worried about that too.  

Michelle, Student

This membership helped me feel less alone by citing real-exciting examples or traits that are common across all high-control groups. Information is delivered gently, and appropriate trigger warnings are given beforehand. I really love all of the bonus content too—thank you so much for existing and offering a reasonable monthly price. Your services and platform are the most healing tools I’ve found since I left [my cult]. Every time I log in and watch your content, I’m reminded that: I’m not crazy, these things did happen to me, and it really is a big deal that my faith (perhaps the purest thing in my life) was used to manipulate and practically destroy my sense of self and my ability to reason for myself.

Laura, Student

I learned so much about thought reform that made me feel so much less alone. The thought reform content being broken down into the 8 ways, with each explained, and examples given. It was easy to see how the evangelical church I was part of used thought reform. It was so nice to see that I was not alone and others had been through this.

Angela, Student

I love how it's been broken into pieces that are digestible. I like how there's a PowerPoint to visually follow while she speaks. The examples are always super helpful to me. I've recommended this course to others that might feel alone or like their experience was "normal", even if it doesn't feel quite right to you.  You'll understand so much more after working through this material. 

Meet your teacher

Hi, I'm Dr. Quincee

I am a clinical psychologist that specializes in religious trauma. I've helped my clients understand their experiences and leave their culty groups with dignity and self-understanding.

But before I specialized in helping others get out of these toxic environments and communities, I was surviving my own religious trauma.

 

 

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But it wasn't always this way...

I lived through fear-mongering and unending messages about hell.

I was guilt-tripped for having normal human experiences.

I was terrified to lose every relationship that was important to me.

I felt like something was wrong with me for having questions.

I was isolated from the outside world.

When I broke free of the guilt, shame, and fear, I needed support from people who knew what it was like to be a part of a group like this.

That's why this membership means so much to me.

 

Here's the problem...

Cult groups are full of magical thinking.

  • And that magical thinking keeps us afraid of god or a leader punishing us for being human.
  • Our religious trauma is working against us because it teaches us that we can't trust our own instincts. 
  • Our rigid religious or cult groups have used so much guilt and shame to control us for so long and we don't know what to do now. 
  • Our groups have kicked us out, punished us for disagreeing and now we're feeling lonely and a little bit lost in what to do next. 
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I'm here to change that

Here's the truth:

 

Cult and religious groups manipulate and scare you to keep you stuck in their groups. 

So, no more feeling lost and hopeless about healing after leaving a cult. 

No more feeling overwhelmed with trying to find the right place to get education. 

No more scouring Instagram or Tiktok trying to find folks that get it. 

I'm saying "yes" to recovery

Does this sound like your religious or high-control group experience? 

 

Feeling like god wanted my life small 

Repressing feelings, Depressed and Lost

Feeling terrified & dependent

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Think about it this way...

What happens when I start to heal my religious trauma?

  • Imagine walking through the world with less fear and anxiety about hell, god's punishment, or other fear-mongering messages you heard. You no longer have to live with crippling fear and anxiety. 
  • Imagine repairing your relationships with friends and family that you had to cut off when you were part of the restrictive group.  You no longer have to distance yourself and you can start to have some support again. 

 

  • Imagine enjoying everyday activities (like reading, music, dancing, sports, and movies) that you once believed were wrong to enjoy. Turns out, life can be a little bit sweeter than it's previously been. 
  • Imagine coping with normal life stress without fear that you are deeply sinful and flawed for being worried, angry or overwhelmed. Your human emotions no longer have to be so frightening. 
  • Imagine coping with normal life stress without fear that you are deeply sinful and flawed for being worried, angry or overwhelmed. Your human emotions no longer have to be so frightening. 

And there is more!

When you enroll, you'll also get these awesome bonuses:

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Bonus #1

Church Vs. Cult

Let's get clear on the difference between a cult and a church. Not sure when a church crosses over the line into cult behavior? This masterclass will walk you through how we assess the health of religious communities using a helpful model. 

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Bonus #2

Basics of Trauma Mini-Course

Learn the basics of trauma from a trauma expert. This mini-course covers safety (which is the most important part of trauma recovery), emotional states after trauma, avoidance systems in the brain, and how trauma impacts your relationships.

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Bonus #3

Notorious Narcissistic Leaders

Are you wondering why a lot of cult leaders seem to show some similar features? We teach you how to spot narcissistic features and behaviors using the examples of previous notorious cult leaders

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Plus this bonus that you can immediately use to feel calm

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Regulate your nervous system in order to cope with the stressors you are experiencing. You might be a little nervous to start unraveling all your religious trauma. Learning how to calm yourself and regulate your internal state can help you feel empowered to keep going.

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Our students are feeling relieved and ready to thrive

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Are you afraid that this course will make you less spiritual?

That's not our style. 

KJ, Student

The major thing that I learned in this membership: That deconstruction is not questioning faith in God. I was so afraid I would be "talked out" of my faith in God, but that is truly not what happens here.  You can be religious, spiritual, or something else entirely and you'll still learn so much. 

Miles, Student

Before I started this program, I looked high and low for whether Dr. Quincee was part of my religion.  I was nervous I would be "influenced" to be less spiritual.  Turns out, that's not what this program is about at all.  Its about what happened within an unhealthy group and how you can spot this stuff to protect yourself. 

Are the tools you get in this membership helpful?

Our students say they are the best part. 

Joseph, Student

I found the membership so helpful because there were such clear descriptions & definitions was incredibly helpful. I downloaded all the PDFs and used them as journal prompts to help in my recovery journey. All the tools and skills I learned here have changed my life. 

Raquel, Student

This membership is relatable. And real - doesn't feel as much like reading a textbook or getting bored to death, which frees me up to engage with the content. I have even gone back and re-listened to some things and learned even more the second time through. 

Michelle, Student

This membership helped me feel less alone by citing real-exciting examples or traits that are common across all high-control groups. Information is delivered gently, and appropriate trigger warnings are given beforehand. I really love all of the bonus content too—thank you so much for existing and offering a reasonable monthly price. Your services and platform are the most healing tools I’ve found since I left [my cult]. Every time I log in and watch your content, I’m reminded that: I’m not crazy, these things did happen to me, and it really is a big deal that my faith (perhaps the purest thing in my life) was used to manipulate and practically destroy my sense of self and my ability to reason for myself.

 

You don't have to white-knuckle it through trauma recovery any longer. 

Here's how you get started

1. Join A Year of Non-Magical Thinking

Click the enrollment button and follow the checkout steps. In minutes, you'll get an email will your login details. You can get started immediately or move at a pace you feel great about.

2. Dive in and take action

Dive into the content and take action. Can’t start right away? It's okay, you have a year's access to the course. You'll get prompts to continue each part of the course so you get the most out of the experience. 

 

3. Start feeling more knowledgable

Finally feel like you understand what happened to you in your group. You'll learn how culty and religious groups emotionally manipulate so you can recover and use skills taught by a trauma therapist. 

LET'S DO THIS →
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Our money-back guarantee

Try our program for 7 days, risk-free

Our 7-day Traumastery test drive means you can try our education program and if you aren't digging it, you can get a refund with no questions asked. 

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Shay saw this happen after joining YONMT:

"I finally have a plan for how to interact with my family (who are still in the culty group I escaped).  This has been so relieving for me!"

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Laura said this after joining YONMT: 

"I had never heard of the term 'Religious OCD' so this has totally changed my life in the most amazing way."

This is for you if:

  • You grew up in a fundamental, super-strict or culty religious group
  • You joined a group later in life but it had all the culty vibes and a big impact on your emotional health 
  • You have a family member that got stuck in a high-control group and you're having a hard time understanding their experience.  
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This is not for you if:

  • You aren't a trauma survivor and don't relate at all to the experience of religious trauma.
  • You are totally comfortable with your religious experience and don't think you need to address any toxic dynamics. 
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Mary said this after joining YONMT:

"My relationship with my religion is personal and complicated.  It was so nice being in an environment where I was learning about unhealthy dynamics without feeling judged."

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Stacy found this during her YONMT journey: 

"I learned how to navigate my experience with my culty group, while figuring out how to still interact with my family.  It's been the best gift."

Are you ready to understand what happened to you in that group experience?

No more white-knuckling it through. 

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Frequently Asked Questions

You aren't alone.

I know you feel so alone... And you're probably thinking "How did I even end up in a space like this?" If that's you, here's a few reminders to keep you going when you're being hard on yourself: 

33%

Did you know 33% of U.S. adults have experienced religious trauma at some point in their lives? 

3 Million

Some experts estimate that at least 3 million people living right now have been a part of a cult. 

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Real talk, my friend.

Religious and cult groups can cause some real damage. 

And after you leave, you carry around the anxiety, fear, and grief that those groups caused you to feel.  

It's time to let that sh*t go.  It's no way to leave and it's wearing you down over time. 

Here's what's waiting for you on the other side of your indoctrination:

  • Freedom to feel the fullness of the human experience. I mean, like all your emotions (without being a bad person for it). 
  • Shedding that guilt and shame because that is a heavy burden to carry. 
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Ready to achieve your goal? Choose your payment plan:

ALL ACCESS

$597

  • Get immediate access to all of the curriculum.  No need to wait for all 12 months of content to become available. 
  • Get every tool I personally use with my clients
  • Downloadable journal prompts to keep you engaged in the process
  • Monthly content and bonuses added along the way 
  • Community space to connect (if you're ready for that)
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12 payments of

$45

  • Manage overwhelm by getting monthly content focused on all the important lessons of unindoctrination
  • Get every tool I personally use with my clients 
  • Downloadable journal prompts to keep you engaged in the process
  • Monthly content and bonuses added along the way
  • Community space to connect with others (if you are ready for that-- some folks might not be ready and that is A-Ok) 
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